Monday, October 12, 2015
4 Ways to Know if She's a Real Friend
In life we all need friends. Friends are the ones that catch us when we've fallen. Without them, life is ten times harder.
Having bad friends, friends who aren't really there for you, can be just as bad, though. If a friend leaves when the going gets tough, then you can be sure he's not a good friend. So here are four ways to know if your friend is the real deal.
*Priority*
Is your friend there when you really need them? Or are they always busy trying to get involved with the 'in' crowd? If a friend prioritizes you and the rest of her friends by popularity, she or he needs to go. A true friend will be there when you most need them. If she's constantly letting you down, and hurting you in the process, it's time to say goodbye.
*Communication*
Yes this is a cliche, but it's one for a reason. If your friend is constantly getting mad and not telling you why - that's a problem. The same applies in reverse. Of course, it's also a problem if your friend is ignoring your efforts to talk to them. If you're constantly telling your friend that somethings wrong and she ignores you it's a sign - a sign that she's not a good friend.
*Tension*
If there's a lot of tension between the two of you, something is very wrong. The same applies for if you're constantly getting into fights. The only way to solve this problem is to talk. Be prepared for the talk to end badly. That's not always a bad thing, though. Talking it out and getting angry will be a relief and may allow you to be friends with them in the future. If they refuse to talk, wave them goodbye. In the end, loosing a bad friend will only prevent further harm - for the both of you.
*Personality*
As people grow older, they change. It's a known fact of life and it's perfectly alright. If you're noticing that all the things you once had in common are gone, or that everything you believe in she now opposes maybe it's time to say goodbye. It's ok to let go of old friends and move on to new ones - as long as it's for the right reasons.
All I'm trying to say is that you deserve good friends, real friends. Sometimes it necessary to let go of old friends for your own sake. Your happiness comes first, and good friends can help you with that.
x x
Remember you are worth it, and you do deserve happiness.
Friday, October 9, 2015
Wild - Troye Sivan EP
It's Friday.
I found some stuff.
Let's go.
Friday Finds #1
Wow.
I mean, just wow.
What an amazing EP.
I have been a fan of Troye's for quite some time, but I was blown away by WILD. His first EP was, to me, mediocre. Good, but not great. Which, if you think about it, is pretty good for a first EP. The leap of improvement is just incredible. The songs on WILD are incredibly unique and beautiful. His songs are interesting and mix different sounds and genres. Not to mention, his voice has a beautiful and soft tone. As someone who strives to be in the music industry, this is incredibly inspirational. Improvement is after all the ultimate goal.
I would encourage you all to check this EP out. Not only is Troye a talented musician but also such a genuine and down to earth guy!
Happy Friday!
x x
Remember you are worth it, and you do deserve happiness.
Monday, October 5, 2015
5 Makeup Products You Need
Makeup is a a lot more than some people cut it out to be.
Nowadays, wearing makeup makes you "fake" or "insecure." Personally, I find it sad that people even use the word fake in that connotation.
What, is she plastic? A clone? Not real?
As far as I'm concerned fake isn't a legitimate insult.
Moving past that, as of recently I've started seeing makeup as an art form. On my own face, I don't like putting on a lot of makeup, but I love being challenged to glam up a face that isn't as familiar as my own. To me, it's like painting on a dynamic, 100% unique canvas. I'm still learning and becoming familiar with more intense and artistic makeup, but when it comes to basics I've got you covered.
Here are 5 must have makeup products!
1. Graphic Liner - Makeup Forever
Liquid liner can take your look from a 7 to a 10 in one stroke! It's perfect for framing your eyes or adding a dramatic wing. This liner stays put, and gives a super defined, super black payoff. Unlike some cheaper eyeliners, you don't have to press super hard to get a dark line. The felt tip makes application easy and quick.
2. Super Sizer Mascara - Covergirl
As far as mascaras go, this one is incredible! It makes your lashes thick and incredibly long. Just one coat makes our lashes look like falsies. Of all the mascaras I've ever tried this one is the most stunning.
3. Match Perfection Concealer - Rimmel
When I first got this concealer I thought I would run out of it right away. However, while the tube looks tiny, it has lasted me months. This concealer has great coverage while maintaining a natural look. It also gives a subtle highlight which is perfect for under the eyes.
4. Smooth Skin Bronzing Face Powder - NYC
This bronzer costs so little and works so well! It gives a great contour and helps accentuate the cheekbones. It doesn't come out orange and works well while still being subtle! This is the perfect option if you're on a budget.
While lipstick is fun and much more opaque, I like saving that for special occasions. This is perfect for a natural tint of red across the lips. It's moisturizing and looks beautiful.
x x
Remember you are worth it, and you do deserve happiness.
Friday, September 4, 2015
GIWM #3
Life Is Beautiful.
Get Inspired With Me #3
I'm gonna keep this one short and sweet.
This quote is self explanatory; it's more a reminder than a new idea. However, I am definitely guilty of taking the beauty around me for granted - and I don't mean just aesthetically pleasing things. One of the most beautiful things life has to offer are people, friends, family. If we're all perfectly honest with ourselves, I'm sure we've all taken some of the most important people in our lives for granted. Or maybe we don't appreciate the gifts given to us both palpable and not.
So here's just a quick reminder - look around, see the beauty you're surrounded with. No matter what your life is like there is beauty there.
And here's a crazy thought: guess what? To someone you're that beautiful thing. Keep smiling, keep living, keep being you, because believe it or not you're probably making someone's day.
My goal this week is...
To look around me and see all the great things I have - good friends, a loving family, and so much more; that in itself is enough.
x x
Remember you are worth it, and you do deserve happiness.
Tuesday, September 1, 2015
Music I've loved // August 2015
I have been looking forward to the end of August - just so I could write this post.
Crazy, I know.
As many of you may know, I am extremely passionate about music; and being able to share my favorite music with you has got me super excited! Each song will link you to its track on Soundcloud.
My music taste ranges from classical to EDM - so my choices are all across the board.
*The Other Woman*
Lana Del Rey
This song is so so beautiful. It has such a longing and melancholy vibe to it that just touches my soul. One of the best songs I have ever heard in my life.
*Goddess*
Chrome Sparks
This song is a great EDM track. I prefer listening to it in headphones, and I love listening to it while I'm writing. It's got a way of inspiring me to be productive.
*Mssingno - XE3 (Wheathin Turn*
*Jackal - Animal Style*
Mad Decent
This EDM track is especially intense. It's an amazing mix of Trap and Dubstep that gets inside your head. Lovers of Trap will love this.
My music taste ranges from classical to EDM - so my choices are all across the board.
*The Other Woman*
Lana Del Rey
This song is so so beautiful. It has such a longing and melancholy vibe to it that just touches my soul. One of the best songs I have ever heard in my life.
*Goddess*
Chrome Sparks
This song is a great EDM track. I prefer listening to it in headphones, and I love listening to it while I'm writing. It's got a way of inspiring me to be productive.
*Mssingno - XE3 (Wheathin Turn*
Another EDM track, this discovery was made because of my decision to join soundcloud! I was very pleasantly surprised to find that soundcloud was a perfect match for me.
Cosmo's Midnight
Yes, you guessed it, another EDM track - but this one is seriously amazing; it might even be my favorite.
Lana Del Rey
So maybe this month there isn't that much variation? What can I say I've been really loving Lana. Her voice is something else entirely.
Jessie J
I'm a sucker for some good old Jessie J. She's talent if I've ever heard it - I mean her voice is crazy good! Her range is out of this world and her voice is so strong.
Cover by Vince Kidd
This is actually a link to an audition for the Voice UK, but boy is it good. Vince's rendition of the classic "Like a Virgin" is incredible to say the least.
Alt-j
I listen to a lot of EDM (especially on soundcloud) and this song is one of the best I've heard. It has such a good beat and such funky twists throughout the whole song.
Medasin
This is such a fun track! It's definitely more chill but I love it for just that. It's got some great saxophone mixed in it which is always a fun time.
*Desire*
Years & Years
I have been listening to this song for months and I still love it. It's so unique and funky in the best way. Definitely a must listen.
*Jackal - Animal Style*
Mad Decent
This EDM track is especially intense. It's an amazing mix of Trap and Dubstep that gets inside your head. Lovers of Trap will love this.
The music I love probably gives the best insight as to who I am - so I hope you've learned a little bit about me and my taste.
x x
Remember you are worth it, and you do deserve happiness.
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